Sunday, September 23, 2012

Tender Love



The irony is that the baby ultimately wields the greatest power. The athlete could crush it, the dictator could kill it, and the rock star could out-glow it in sheer dynamism, but the baby has a different kind of power. It can touch hearts in a way that a dictator, an athlete, or a rock star cannot. Its innocent, wordless presence, without physical strength, can transform a room and a heart in a way that guns, muscle, and charisma cannot. We watch our language and actions around a baby, less so around athletes and rock stars. The powerlessness of a baby touches us at a deeper moral place.

This is the way we find and experience God's power here on earth, sometimes to our great frustration, and this is the way that Jesus was deemed powerful during his lifetime. The Gospels make this clear, from beginning to end. Jesus was born as a baby, powerless, and he died hanging helplessly on a cross with bystanders mocking his powerlessness. Yet both his birth and his death reveal the kind of power upon which we can ultimately build our lives.

This is not an easy concept to grasp since our idea of power is normally rooted in the notion that power lies in the ability to overwhelm, not underwhelm, others. And yet we understand this, at least somewhat, in our experience of babies, who can overpower us precisely by their powerlessness. Around a baby, every mother and father and grandparent has learned, we not only watch our language and try not to have bitter arguments; we also try to be better, more loving persons. Metaphorically, a baby has the power to do an exorcism. It can cast out the demons of self-absorption and selfishness in us. That's why Jesus could cast out certain demons that others could not.

Blessed are you who have suffered the violence of others in this world. Women who have been abused, workers robbed of their integrity in the workplace, children who have been abandoned. All who felt he power of rejection and misunderstanding to someone’s advantage. How should we respond to those moments?

That is what I am going to do, says Jesus. I am going to say “I love you,” to my Father. I will do it by undergoing insults and humiliating death because I love God above these things. And I love the world, everything that is in it. And I love you, with the fullness and warmth and generosity of God’s everlasting love.

God is walking with us this morning when we pray: “When pride comes, then comes disgrace, but with humility comes wisdom.” (Proverbs 11:2).

Lord, I pray for all my Sonshine Friends who are “bowed down” feeling shame or disgrace. Let us find the grace of humility to raise us up beyond our worst fears and live in God’s everlasting love.